So I've been kinda of MIA since Wednesday's
My Harry Potter Fix. I've been reading and commenting on others' blogs, though!
Now it's Monday.
I'll be honest. I'm feeling "blogscouraged." (Yes, I just made up that word. It's an adjective. It means "a feeling of discouragement about one's blog.")
I don't want this to come off as whiny, and please know that is not my intention. I just want to be open and honest, and so here it goes.
I'm feeling blogscouraged because I feel like things have come to a screeching halt. In February,
Tarole invited her sponsors to participate in a giveaway. That giveaway really grew my blog in a hurry, and I'm SO glad that I participated. I know, though, that some people just followed me to gain an entry. I
totally understand that. I've done it. I've also unfollowed blogs after the giveaway has ended. So when the giveaway ended, so did the growth.
I decided to turn my own weekly "
Dinner Time Tuesdays" post into a link-up. It's often just me. Kinda defeats the purpose of the link-up, doesn't it? Even though My Harry Potter Fix doesn't always have a ton of people linking up, at least I'm not alone. I know that
Kim and Tarole will be there, too, and I love reading their answers and interacting with them.
I'm also not sure that my number of followers to comments ratio is good. Let me explain. I know that I don't have time to follow and actively read tons and tons of blogs. When I follow you, it's because I found something I really liked about you, your blog, your story, or
something I learned about you from your blog. That means I want to get to "know" you. I'm able to do this through reading your blog. That also means that I try to comment often....on each post I read, if I can. What I like most about blogging is the interaction with other bloggers. I understand that getting comments isn't what blogging is about. But as I just said, for me it's about interaction. That happens through the comments.
I started my blog to share the recipes I've tried in my kitchen. I want to share the good, the bad, and the delicious. I want to share how I did it, if I made tweaks based on things I had at home, etc. I want to hear people's thoughts. I am looking for your feedback and suggestions. I haven't been doing very well at recipe sharing because I haven't been very good at making things lately. So that part of my blog has been a vicious cycle of insanity...which I can pretty much blame on Insanity, the workout.
I've also been blogscouraged by the lack of people willing to sponsor my blog. It can make a person feel a little "blogconscious." (I'm on a roll with made up words today.) I definitely know that is not what blogging is all about, but you do question why people aren't sponsoring. (
Am I not funny? Do people find me boring? What else can I do?) Silly, I know, but true. (By the way, thank you to my two
awesome sponsors
Ashley &
Elizabeth.)
I know that some of you have gone through this before, and I know that many of you understand. I just wanted to share why I've been missing since Wednesday.
I also wanted to let you know that if I'm a follower of your blog, I am a devoted reader. It also means I think you're pretty awesome. :)